I have some things to say about each character tonight. Especially, Sonakshi, Ishwari and Radha Rani.
I have hears these words a lot from many hypocrite people before in reality. So I will just quote those people whom I have never admired today. But indeed I got reminded of their words. So here you go –
- For a happy marital life, the girl should always earn less than the man
- For a happy marital life, the girl should always keep her self respect outside the door of the house.
- For a happy marital life, your respect and your family’s respect is always secondary. You should always think of your husband and in laws first. If your priorities do not change after marriage, you are a bad example of a bahu.
- For a happy marital life, you should just forget and move on from the incident when your husband ‘accidentally’ slapped your father but you should always remember when your husband is scolded by your father.
- For a good marital and lovely life, you should call it peace always with your mother in law who has absolutely no regrets about insulting and getting your father hurt by her son. And instead you should simply, take care of her ‘respect’.
- For being an ideal bahu, you should learn how to adjust everyday at your in laws despite getting taunts from a maami like Radha Rani and your husband and mother in law being silent each time you are insulted.
- For being an ideal bahu, you should not only leave your surname behind but you definitely should leave your identity of being a daughter behind as well.
- For being an ideal bahu, your husband may leave you, blame you and keep you as a secondary person in his life for his parents but you can’t think of your parents first while being a family to them.
I have a question here. If Sonakshi’s father had given 5 crores to Neha to set up her business and Ishwari was insulted like that of Bijoy by Saurabh at the Bose house, wouldn’t Dev have come to return the same money to Bijoy to respect the honour of his mother? If he is right in doing so, then why is Sona wrong? Because he is a son and she is a daughter? How pathetic our society is!
So for those who are saying it’s Sonakshi’s fault that such a calamity is happening, think twice what you are asking. If you still want her to forget everything that has happened with her and her family in the last 4 days, then it’s simply a shame on being a woman. I would anyday choose to be with a family like the Bose’s rather than being in a zoo like the Dixit Mansion wherein everyone are double standard people except probably Mamaji who has lost control on events and Dev, who never had any control on anything.
Now about Ishwari. She said a line today to Sonakshi that reminded me how many of our parents work hard and pay premiums to various insurance policies in order to keep our and their future safe.
She said, “I have always given everything and never took anything”. Really? I didn’t get certain things. I thought for half her life she never had anything to give, and then in the rest half of her life she was so obsessed with the giver (her son) in her life that she could not even give HIM properly to her daughter in law and she talks about giving everything to everyone? I will tell what she gave till date. She worked hard and struggled immensely to invest into a human insurance programme so that it becomes her personal remote controlled robot in later life and gives her and her daughters all the comfort she missed in her early years. That’s much like putting premiums in insurances. My parents did it too, I am sure everyone does. If you call that giving, then we all have given. What’s the big deal in that?
Did she give Neha what she deserved in her childhood? Did she give enough respect to Sonakshi in that house? Did she give enough freedom to Dev to take his decision? Did she give equal love and affection to all her children? Did she give same attention to all 4 of her children? You could not even give Dev his love with an open and happy heart. Then what have you given Ishwari?
If we talk about givers and takers here, then all I would say is life is weird and it plays odd games with us. Today you might have everything to give and you show it off to others by saying, ‘I only give and never take’. But who knows, tomorrow time may just make you another taker and today whom you are considering a taker might just become a life saving giver to you. I wrote long time back in an article, probably written in September, asking what will Ishwari do if some day this same Bahu of hers becomes the bread earner of this family for whom she made her son sign a pre-nup.
Dearest Radha Rani’s wishes are soon going to be fulfilled. She will become the next ‘Chaupat Raja’ of this ‘Andher Nagri’. What will be left off this Dixit household then?
About Bijoy. He is a typical Bengali communist. Communism culture is something that is very much confined within the boundaries of Bengal and probably Kerala and I don’t think everyone will understand it. These kind of people take their insults very seriously and they don’t forget it easily. Their life’s motto is very simple, “Where the mind is without fear and the head is held high”. For them pride, respect, honour, self esteem, dignity are not just words but are a way of life. Their principles are their ambitions. People who are staunch communists might understand what I am saying today. Now you know why Bengal had a communist government for 34 years even in a democratic set up! (not that it was deprived of corruption of course!)
About Dev? Well, poor guy is trapped. He can’t do anything now. Things gone out of his hands. He has to suffer now for being an ignorant husband through all the months and for thinking that only his love is enough for his wife to lead a happy life in his mad house.
Lastly, for a person to know his/her worth a set back once in life is necessary. To run behind something, you literally need to get addicted to it. Dev got addicted to his work because he wanted to earn money as he lived the life of an under-privileged for many years. Dev got addicted to Sonakshi too, as he lived a life that was deprived of any friend who understood him the way she did.
Dr. Sonakshi Bose too needed a push to rise from being Bijoy Bose’s daughter or Dev Dixit’s wife and make her own self identity. She needed that set back to get equal to the Dixits on one thing which makes them feel that they are superior to anyone and that they are the givers and not the takers.
She would face unbelievable amount of complications in her life henceforth but she will cross them all because she is hurt in the most dangerous way and this addiction to progress in life will act as a healing medicine to her wound. And yes, if she plans to leave Dev, she needs to leave Delhi. For if she stays in that city, then Dev Dixit, whose anger on Sonakshi has a life of only 24 hours, will anyhow find her out. So she needs to leave without leaving a trace of hers.
From hereon, get ready to witness a very different Sonakshi returning back on screen. This Sonakshi might be far more stronger, richer and successful than the Dixits ever thought she can be. And I hope when she returns, the Dixits no longer remains the ‘givers’. That would give me some sadistic pleasure.
People might ask, why a separation is needed. Well, when two people can’t walk on the same path, it’s healthy to walk on the roads they prefer to walk separately or else accidents would take place. If they are meant for each other, then one day their roads will collide making them walk together again.
This separation is needed to make Ishwari realise that her son will not get alright on his own as she said at the dining table yesterday. She needs to realise Sonakshi’s worth in her family and also that Dev is no longer an 8 year old but a 28 years old whose every need cannot be sufficed by his mother. Only this separation can bring in the change that is required in Ishwari. Or else, she will continue to remain the same and Dev and Sonakshi will continue to live in love but in hell!
P.S:- I have written yesterday in the article about what MIGHT happen in the show in my ‘words of wisdom’ part to Ishwari. I would not be surprised if the same happens in the show. And if it happens, I want a gift from my readers.
So get your thinking caps on and think of a good name for Dev and Sonakshi’s daughter. But there’s a clause. The name of ‘Dev’ should be there in the name. Think of a name through which it would be apparent that a part of Dev would remain with Sona even when he won’t be there. Let’s see who can get more creative! At least this task would make you guys think less of the mad house’s family members and think more about the upcoming bliss!