Yeh Rishtey Hain Pyaar Ke’s Abir and Mishti for sure are the next sensation amongst the jodis on Indian television right now. And considering how the duo’s love story is progressing gradually, there’s nothing more than what they share, you would use to define the term ‘falling in love’.
We have always looked at two aspects amongst the couples, either when they are in love or when they aren’t in love. Yes, a few might retaliate to this statement and it’s true also that we often see the hero and heroine gradually falling in love with each other but Abir and Mishti’s tale has given a new angle to the whole definition.
No, they don’t zone out often thinking about each other, neither do they do the all time famous phone talks. Well the symptoms of ‘falling in love’ might be similar here but what makes them more unconventional and watchable is the figure of realia in their relationship.
Abir is a man who is hopelessly in love with his angry chorni and the guy openly admits it with his best buddy Naanu, just like we all do! The long haired handsome man is now not oblivious to what he feels about her yet there isn’t the desperation that we see with regards to how the protagonists are only focused on making their heroine believe in their love. As Abir said right now it’s just important for Mishti to now that he is there for her always!
As for Mishti, who clearly is in the phase of ‘falling in love’, is oblivious to what she feels. But at the same time, when the two are in close conversation, she never hesitates to display the slight affection she has for him. There’s no nakhra and no denial. There are no silly questions or assumptions in the head. Rather what we get to witness is the calm and composed flow of emotions amidst the two.
Mishti’s answer to Abir’s question is still unsaid. There’s no denying but no accepting also. A beautiful proof yesterday was the entire song sequence that looked no less than a dreamy one.
For sure it was the ‘Hum Dil De Chuke Sanam’ way, but was less dramatic and more natural.
It was all about ‘eyes doing the talking’ and the ‘aankhon ki gustakhiyan‘ in true sense. With Abir’s playful side very tactfully on roll with his charming grin, Mishti was at times reduced to a puddle which again wasn’t very dramatically portrayed in frame. The dreamy affair tonight was something that drove every fan crazy. Abir’s charm made us witness the hashtag #MischievousMishti too which was a sight to behold!
The calming effect the two have on one’s senses, the respect and space for each other without making things awkward, the no stalking, no staring zone and giving in to the feelings in the most natural way is what Abir and Mishti’s tale looks like right now. It’s an open ended equation with no obligations and an equal opportunity for the emotions to seep in, wave around and explore the chambers of heart. It’s the process wherein the two are living it slowly caring the least about the stereotyped three words.
It’s about living as your own and yet inculcating what good the other has to offer, it’s like loving yourself and at the same time loving someone else who loves you the way you are and lastly it’s the gratifying emotion of witnessing yourself with the same dignity from someone else’s eyes!
That’s how we define Abir and Mishti’s relationship right now and we bet you’ll ‘fall in love’ with them too!